This has taught me one of the hardest lessons I've ever had to learn in my lifetime. Always treat the people you love with respect even if u feel u have been wronged or your behavior would be justified. Because only you have to live with the things u say. And few things in life are more final than a word when it has been spoken. Don't take anyone's presence in your life for granted and don't put off until tomorrow what can be resolved today. Tomorrow may never come. Cherish the ones u love and most importantly always make sure they know they are cherished. Never leave words unspoken and never ever abandon your family. Stick together unconditionally and make sure the people u love never have to to feel like they aren't good enough or like they have to face this world alone.