I have started this memory over quit a few times now, because I wanted to make sure to say everything right. First; I would like to extend my sincere apologies to the family for the loss of Jay. I am truly sad to here of this. I first met Jay when I was 14. I was visiting Bob Miesch, back in 8th grade you could get permission to visit your friends' at other schools. So, I walk in with Bob to his computer class and this kid starts joking and messing with me... long story short; he had me laughing so hard that I GOT KICKED OUT for being to loud.. It wasn't EVEN my school; I went to REETHS-PUFFER!! So, periodically; I would run into him here and there.. and he would always have this "Shananagin" smile... making everyone else smile and laugh... The 1st time I was in a car accident; it was with Jay (totaled his Mustang); 1st time I drank; was with Jay and of course; Romero and Todd; (of course I was of legal drinking age).. when I would get mad at my mom.. I could always call Jay (sometimes Romero); and he would listen to me, give me advice and make me laugh; or those crazy guys would just come and get me and we would go to Duck Lake, the 1st time I drove a stick... you guessed it.. Jay and Romero.. and of course they were arguing about who was right... up and down the little dirt hills in Lakewood Club in Romeros beat up car...next thing I know we almost flip over... laughing so hard until we were crying.. "the Group" taught me how to first play "Spades" at Bridgette's house .. I could go on and on ... Point is Jay was always there for me.. I hope I also was there for him, with his demons. I have the best memories with him and the "gang".. I lost touch a few years back after getting married, having children, getting old etc. I would run into him here and there. Last time I seen him was at Farm and Home getting some chicken food for his familys' chickens... I was ALSO there doing the same thing... we just started laughing... I said, "Really, we are all THAT old now that we are buying "chicken food" instead doing something crazy.. where did the time go? He was so excited to get that chicken food for his families chickens...( quote:" my wife and kids love the chickens").. Sometimes the smallest things help get you through.. Jay loved people and loved his family and friends whole heartedly.. I know you all are hurting right now and I am not sure if you know me or remember me but, I am sending virtual love and hugs.. Jay, Thank you for being one of the best friends I EVER had... ( you too Romero.. LOL) Thank you for all the crazy shananagins and all the fun a bunch of kids could have.. You are missed already... Rest in Piece my "Brother from another Mother"... -Emily Wawrzyniak-Bray